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What’s worse

by Shawn on Nov.11, 2009, under Random stuff

So in the world of electronic dating. We deal with a lot of rejection on both sides, seeking those out who interest us and vice versa. Sadly those who find one another mutually interesting can be rare in the online dating world. My question I pose to the few that may actually read this is, what’s worse? Is it an actual rejection be it in person or electronically or is it the no response? That is the question I’m trying to sort out. What is your opinion on it?

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1 Comment for this entry

Jim M
May 4th, 2011 on 1:16 pm
It’s both the silent treatment and the rejection…they go hand in hand. When I met my wife online (hold on, she was not my wife when we met but you get my meaning), she rejected our first date…never gave a reason and as far as what I felt at the time, she made me sweat for a couple of days. I sat around thinking perhaps I moved to quick, yada, yada. In the end it was my persistence (not to mention my honesty) the prevailed in successfully securing the first date (which lasted almost 12 hours I might add). I should also mention that in the grand scheme of things, AGE has a LOT to do with who you pursue and we are NOT talk’n numbers here, it’s all about age and it’s relationship with maturity.

If you don’t get responses, it COULD be that the person may be away, the dating thing may be taking a back seat, no access to email, perhaps they were kidnapped….

I always looked at it as, if they are going to let you down, just drop the bomb instead of the “you know, gee, you are a really nice guy and all but…”

BUTS are killers…enough said.